Count Down Conquered

The mind wants to protect us from danger and failure through fear. There is a very limited time that we have to initiate an idea that may challenge us. I met a man named Dante today who shared in interesting story. When he first began dating he’d hold his breath as long as he could before talking to a girl he had an interest in. This was his countdown. Once he took that first breath the conversation just flowed. Today I met Dante, Marina and Nanita all because I decided to count down and conquer. I’d been procrastinating about driving for Uber since initially downloading the app months ago. I just couldn’t bring myself to try. There was always some excuse I’d make. Many of which were out of fear. It wasn’t until I realized it was time to count down from five and just do it. I got online with Uber and within a minute I received my first request. 5 4 3 2 1 and I was out the door and on my way. Remember, we have five seconds to make a decision that could add so much to the life we love. Don’t give your mind the time to count you out. You can count up to infinity or just count down and act now. 5 4 3 2 1 😁


Stephen Dubrofsky
Educational Therapist/Parent Educator

“I found Ron to be a most gifted communicator, extremely knowledgeable and well versed in the holistic values of what it takes to create healthy relationships with children and families. We had an interesting conversation about ways in which we may promote positive relationships within ourselves and our children. I found Ron to be supportive, understanding and fluid as to the nature of the dynamics of the topic.”

Stephen Dubrofsky MA., M.Ed
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Joe Danna
Owner of Atlantic Massage & Muscular Therapies, LLC

“Ron will go the extra mile to help anyone communicate their message to a large audience while being a personable guide along the way.”

Abiola Abrams
Lifestyle Expert, Empowerment Coach, Speaker, Author, Blogger, Love Advice Columnist

“Ron Ash brought me on board to do a weekly love and self-empowerment advice segment for his popular radio show based in Rhode Island and broadcast worldwide. I have given advice on networks from the BBC to MTV and found Ron by comparison to be an incredibly giving, organized and hard-working Program Director and Executive Producer. In other words, Ron was as great as anyone I’ve worked with at any other network. It was such a pleasure to work with him!

As an on-air coach, co-host and advice giver, you seek partnership with the shows producer and host. Ron wore many hats in this capacity and never once appeared to be anything less than supportive and in control in the most positive of ways. Listeners were always excited to call in and participate as Ron was smart, inspiring, capable, fun and informative on air.

Any organization would be lucky to have the creative and professional Ron Ash on board.”

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Programmer for On Air and Productions Manager,CEO of

“Ron Ash is innovative, motivated and an expert in the field or broadcasting and promotions. He has a professional approach when inspiring both his guests and peers to “Be” the best they can, and then some. I would highly recommend working with Ron Ash”

Susan Lataille
Certified International Health Coach at Susan Lataille Wholistic Health Guru

“It has been a pleasure to work with Ron. Advertising on Being with Ron has been of great benefit for my events. I look forward to a continued relationship.”

Lisa Barretta

“I consider the interview that I did for the Being with Ron Ash talk show, one of the most invigorating out of all of my experiences as being a show guest. Ron keeps the momentum of the dialogue going throughout the show and his engaging on-air personality can certainly put any guest at ease. I totally enjoyed working with Ron Ash.”

Dorian Osmani
Sr. Vice President/Sr. Client Manager at Bank of America

“Ron is a succeful individual which he has demonstrated through his many business ventures and also through out his career as an educator, business owner and adviser. I have known Ron for the last 9 years and he is very energetic with a daily positive attitude.”

Timothy Szymanski
Customer Service Leader/Manager in Training at Cumberland Farms

“Having just moved to the New England region, I have only known Ron for a short period of time – however – I have come to know him as a very entertaining and engaging radio professional. We have had numerous mutually beneficial discussions regarding the profession from the technical and sales side. He has quickly become a great friend in the business.”

If your motivation for financial success comes from the fear of being broke than your concentration is on being broke and your possibilities for success will be greatly diminished. You may succeed, but if your success is based on the feelings and emotions associated with financial freedom, joyous experiences and endless supply you will be free of fear and success will be immanent.

New Years Eve is symbolic of life’s many endings and new beginnings. In Hinduism Kāli is the Goddess of time, change, power and destruction, but without destruction there cannot be rebirth. So, Kāli is really the Goddess of rebirth as well. There cannot be a new beginning without the ending of the old. In Christianity Jesus had to die through crucifixion to experience resurrection. Again, the destruction of the temple which was rebuilt in three days. You see, these things are a characteristic of life, There will always be endings and beginnings that follow. A new year is only our annual symbolic representation of that change. It’s nothing more than an opportunity to experience those changes that we all experience throughout our lifetimes. With these things in mind, be blessed and at piece as 2014 ends and 2015 begins. How we deal with change will have everything to do with how we experience life. Love & Life, Ron Ash

Dating in the forties is a problem just waiting to happen. It seems like men just want to “play” and women want to “stay”. Truthfully, I don’t think men or women in their forties know what they want. It seems like they only think they know. The best course of action is to enjoy each interaction for what it is. Sooner or later the right person will show up. Try to stay away from “type casting” your potential companion. For example, “A good man or woman does this or that” and never make your new interest pay for the errors of the last. You shouldn’t put love in a box in your forties. We’ve all “been there done that” and now it’s our time. Also, be honest with yourself and share what you’d like from your potential love interest right out of the gate. This way if they are not up to it you won’t be wasting each others time. Most importantly, know your value! We are more than our looks. Our value goes beyond our sex appeal. There are qualities within us all that will stand the test of time. You’d probably be very surprised what men in their forties see as beautiful. All you really need to do is be the light that you are and everything else will fall into place.  Be Peace, Ron Ash

The best way to predict the future is to create it. The Intuitive Life Coach takes a Metaphysical approach to life coaching; identifying root issues, accessing key problems and formulating a highly effective approach and resolution. Through proven intuitive coaching techniques The Intuitive Life Coach will help you to move confidently in the direction of your dreams…author, counselor, teacher… Ron Ash is The Intuitive Life Coach.

Ron Ash has worked as a life coach for over six years teaching and speaking locally, nationally and internationally. He has performed highly in all areas in intuitive assessment tests. He has worked with the upper echelon of international spiritual teachers, writers and directors in the fields of Metaphysics and life after death phenomenon including Gregg Braden, Dr. Joe Vitale, Joseph LoBrutto, Anita Moorjani and Paul Davids .

Walking Away

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How do you look at the life you loved and tell yourself it’s time to walk away? You’re not the same person and no longer fit into that same old dream. Memories are only recollections of who you used to be. Now is the cornerstone for all the building blocks and the branches of a tree. Your roots will always secure you but it’s your leaves that make you free.

The Power in You

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In life we have had many influences which have molded are beliefs in who we are and in what we can or cannot become.  In truth there are no limits other than those we impose upon ourselves.  We can move away from these preconceived notions of our Being in this very moment if we so chose.  All we need to do is open our mind, heart and spirit and begin to move forward confidently towards the answers we seek.

In the beginning there existed one Power one Source one Creator of all things which many of us ever so lovingly refer to as God.  Understanding this Source of All and One is the key to becoming all that we are created to be.  You see, we were created by and in the image of a perfect Creator and as such have always been as Perfect as I Am.  Perfection is not capable of imperfection.  It is only our belief that we are less than God that creates the experience of imperfection.

Our experiences are only a reality for us.  Well, this is at least true on a spiritual level.  It can be true on a physical level in regards to how we look back at the event, but in truth physical trauma is a reality for the one who has experienced it.  It is a reality that can contribute to our experience in this lifetime as well as the lifetimes to come unless we take the necessary steps to remove it.

Let’s get back to the spiritual experience which is creating constantly via our thoughts, feelings and emotions.  These experiences begin as beliefs.  As Henry Ford proclaimed, “Whether you think that you can, or that you can’t, you are usually right.”  If you believe you can’t you will most likely never try.  Why would you?  In that case you would only be wasting your time and maybe even your money.  Think back to anything you have ever accomplished in your lifetime.  Really, anything you would like.  We have all accomplished so much in our lives.  Even the thought of getting that morning cup of coffee evokes the principle of thoughts creating an experience.  We wake up think about how great a hot and tasty cup of java will be and that prompts us to take the necessary steps to hold that cup of coffee in our hands.  We actually are seeing and experiencing how nice it will be for us.  Now what do you want right Now?  Whatever it is as we believe we will have it we eventually will.

There are many beliefs that we have held dear for many years.  We are creatures of creation that attach ourselves to outcome.  We have an idea of what we want and what it will take to get there.  We think we know if we can or can’t do it.  Most often we feel in our heart the pains associated with failure that correspond directly to these feelings and emotions.  This is what creates our experience.  Every word and statement that we accept externally from others or internally from ourselves will continually contribute to our beliefs if we allow them to.

Ask yourself what you believe and if it does not line up with what you believe for it is time to evaluate and change those beliefs.  We can’t believe we can and we can’t at the same time.  The power is in us to be the perfection we are or the imperfection we only think we are.  Remember, the original sin was not the wanting to be as powerful as God but believing we were imperfect and less capable than God.

Be Love because Love becomes You

Ron Ash

Fight or Unite

Fight or Unite

When a squirrel is breaking into your bird feeder you can either engage him in battle or give him some nuts.

It is very strange how Universal law is revealed to us sometimes.  We only can really take partial credit for what comes to us and are always obligated to pass these things on to All without hesitation.  You see, we are all One.

I looked out my kitchen window and noticed a squirrel eating some nuts on the back lawn which abuts the wooded area of my lot.  Recalling a terrible jar of peanuts I had purchased the night before and reminded of my final decision as to what to do with them; a secondary epiphany came to mind.

Several years back I decided to stop feeding the birds.  It just seemed to be a losing battle for me.   One birdfeeder after another was being destroyed by my fury little nemesis’s.  Oh let me tell you; as those who have read by books most certainly know what a battle of wits it has been.  There were days when I got the best of them and others do to their persistence and diligence, that they got the best of me.  All in all, looking back I can honestly say they caused me more goodness than harm, but what of the birds?

I love the energy the birds brought into my yard all year round.  Although the summer and spring are always alive with my fine feathered friends in the winter they become few and far between. Winter in New England brings forth a landscape that is sparsely colored.  However, when the finch seed, sunflower and suet is hung the whitened ground, grey skies and trees absent of foliage become alive with color eternally.

What was this incredible blessed epiphany you ask?  Well, why not just feed the squirrel those unpalatable peanuts I bought from Benny’s for $1.88?  The answer was a resounding, “Of Course!”  I hated to waste them and honestly they were not even good enough to donate to the local food pantry.  I would not subject anyone’s taste buds to such a jar of nuts.  Plainly speaking; I may have been taken in on grounds of abuse, taste bud abuse that is.

I began to think past the terrible peanuts and really began to see that at no cost to me I could continue to feed them what they crave.  The mission’s roof is about 4500 sq ft and surrounded by huge oak trees that have generously be relinquishing unwanted acorns all over the it for years.  Instead of filling up buckets with them and paying to through them away I will now commit myself to doing a good deed for those little grey fury tailed critters.  Of course I will be replacing my birdfeeders as soon as I can.

Most importantly what was Spirit telling us from this?  Well, most messages from Spirit prove to be multi dimensional and have more than one meaning, but today I can only speak of one.  We all have issues we are dealing with every day, right?  The thing we must realize is that if we continually deal with them the same way we will most likely end up with the same results.  So, let’s start a new habit!  From now on let’s step back from the problem and ask ourselves why it is occurring.  Honestly, we can’t come up with a valid solution until we identify the real issue.  We can either fight or unite.

Sword of Forgiveness

There is no steel stronger than the sword of forgiveness. Its wielding is victory and in every throw is hope.


There are several decisions we will make along the course of our journey.  Some will have a major impact on our Being and others will have an effect that is barely noticeable.  Of all there is only one that has the potential for launching us forward powerfully and efficiently.


Forgiveness is a double edged sword.  It releases us from the past and enables us to experience the Now and sets the tone for what is yet to be.  This is the easiest and most difficult thing for humans to understand, but it is a necessity of effective travel.


You see, the thing that makes us unwilling to consider forgiveness is the illusion that blame is really just a form of retaliation upon the soul, spirit and mind of the person we choose to not forgive.  The reality is often a little harder for many to accept.  What is that reality?  Well, in most cases the person whom we are begrudging is not affected by our blame in any way and in the other cases they will adopt a way of removing their concentration on our blame by redirecting their thoughts away from us, the incident and any blame that has been placed on them.  In fact, many times they will have little or no understanding of what we believe they need forgiveness from.  Over time this becomes more apparent and is gradually etched in stone.


As any of us affirm that we have done no wrong or justify the wrong doing; the wrong doing slowly slips away.  Our reality is really ours alone and regardless of the Truth that exists in our reality it is still our reality.  It is only what we have come to accept as Truth.


So, regardless of how strongly we hold the feelings, emotions and thoughts of the situation in which we perceive we have been done a terrible wrong; the Ego of the other individual will not be affected by us.  They will only experience the reality that their own Egos have allowed them to accept.  This may or may not be to their own dismay, yet holding a grudge against them will definitely be to our own.


We are in control of what we experience and when we concentrate on the bad experiences we relive them continually.  In a way we marry that past memory as we continually feel the emotions associated in it with the essence of all that we are.  As we become consumed with the negative energy of that past experience we forfeit the joy we could be feeling in the Now and submit to displeasing emotions continually.  In a way we have our arms filled with everything we don’t want and are unable to pickup and carry the love, happiness and fulfillment that sit lying at our feet.


Forgiveness gives us the ability to lighten the load and move forward confidently with Life.  Life only exists in the Now.  In the moment before thought It Is!  We can concentrate on the nonexistent past, speculate about the future or live today in this very moment while relishing in all that is real.  Happiness is a choice.  Forgiveness is a choice.  As we choose correctly we proceed directly to the Promise that is ours.