Nobody enjoys being abused, taken advantage of, being lied to or any other related experience, but if we handle these things well we will be promoted. You see, there are a multitude of levels we must achieve while we are here on earth and when we ascend. Every time we pass the test we are promoted to the next level in our existence.
There can be no testimony without the test. We may bend, but we will not break. There will be fires, but we will get through unskabed. Through it all we become better, stronger and more capable beings.
If we sit back and play it safe we will be safely grounded in our present experience. In this we will have no hope. We will never fulfil our ultimate destiny which the Father has mapped out for us. Remember, we were created to create.